Started another school year. Same old same old. Now things will change. We went to Disney and the boys had a great time but now the homework and missed assignments are due.
Brandon is clueless on this. He came home angry and disappointed about things. Some of the things he mention, I get it and understand why they upset him. However, the kids he talks to me about are the same kids the next day that are his friends. I can't keep up. I think they are typical kids that poke fun at him but yet like him enough that they are also nice to him..
However, when he does get teased, Brandon will go over the top trying to get them to stop. He has yet to learn the real art of saying something once and walking away or ignoring. These kids will stop. They know they can get a rise out of him and he will act like a child. What child would not want to do this for entertainment. It isn't right, but Brandon't world will be like this so he and I are trying to get him to understand the difference.
Then we have the other child, apparently he laugh when one kid was poking Brandon. However, once he understood his brother was not happy and upset since he yelled enought for an aide to come by and move one of them.. it hit Josh. His brother was not happy. So he told the kid that the person he was making fun of was his brother and not to do it. The kid was concern and felt bad.
The hard part for Josh is that when we are at home his brother will and does take out all his anger on him in some sort of way. We are working on this, but to Josh he is an annoying brother. Too us, we know it will take time for Josh to understand how to help him.
Brandon is clueless on this. He came home angry and disappointed about things. Some of the things he mention, I get it and understand why they upset him. However, the kids he talks to me about are the same kids the next day that are his friends. I can't keep up. I think they are typical kids that poke fun at him but yet like him enough that they are also nice to him..
However, when he does get teased, Brandon will go over the top trying to get them to stop. He has yet to learn the real art of saying something once and walking away or ignoring. These kids will stop. They know they can get a rise out of him and he will act like a child. What child would not want to do this for entertainment. It isn't right, but Brandon't world will be like this so he and I are trying to get him to understand the difference.
Then we have the other child, apparently he laugh when one kid was poking Brandon. However, once he understood his brother was not happy and upset since he yelled enought for an aide to come by and move one of them.. it hit Josh. His brother was not happy. So he told the kid that the person he was making fun of was his brother and not to do it. The kid was concern and felt bad.
The hard part for Josh is that when we are at home his brother will and does take out all his anger on him in some sort of way. We are working on this, but to Josh he is an annoying brother. Too us, we know it will take time for Josh to understand how to help him.
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